Hi Belle,

I need to catch up on your whole story...but saw this thread and wanted to say that I am sorry and that I can completely relate. The love of my life married someone else about 6 years ago (they are still together, although we talk sometimes and he does not always sound happy). And then when I thought I had found someone else, he went back to his ex and now I am waiting to hear the same news you just heard (we all work together, ew).

Anyway, I am glad he told you before you heard it from someone else. It also sounds like he doesn't know his new fiancee very well to be engaged to her only after a few months. It sounds like he is going to have a tough road ahead of him. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with you...although I have felt (and still feel) this way sometimes. I think you just need to find someone who truly appreciates you for you!

Anyway, I hope that you are able to move on (when you are ready) and find someone who deserves you! They are out there! (So I hear...)