Hi Tay,
It sounds like you were looking out for her right before she went on vacation, and then she thought you weren't feeling any anxiety, when you actually were. Talking about your childhood is never stupid...it is just that it is probably not exactly what was on your mind at the time, so you probably left feeling somewhat uncomfortable because you didn't get out what you were really feeling? I know I have done the same thing, too.
I am sorry you are scared about your T being gone for 2 weeks.

I would be miserable with that as well. How are you doing?