I am not offended. You are a wonderfully thoughtful person. It's OK to set goals and ask for support. I should have chosen something more benign than work. It bothers me that I am burned out so much. I need to be more self-motivating. In the end if something needs to be done, it gets done. I only wish I didn't have to struggle so much to get there. Sigh. I'll probably procrastinate to go get the newspaper when I'm retired.