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Old Aug 25, 2005, 07:43 AM
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I know, I know.
Yes, I try not to mindread, but some people are not clear for lots of reasons other than not being interested. Being a worrier myself, I don't believe a positive thing until it's obvious to the whole universe.
Being ambiguous allows you to retreat in case of danger for example.
Some people communicate like that unless they are forced to do otherwise.
I can feel that he really likes me but I feel fear as well.

But you can't build anything on that. So if it is temporary: fine. If not I will of course look for somebody else. It happened to a friend. She wasn't sure about a guy's feelings because allthough he seemed happy to see her, he never asked to see her. She insisted and now they are a happy couple. The guy was divorced and his ex-wife made his life miserable, so he wanted to wait and see. He was very glad that she didn't give up. He needed the time. So it is not that simple. I wish it was.
I am still playing dead. Let's see how he acts when there will be no hope of chance encounters anymore.
I just cancelled a meeting at his office. I have been too predictable until now. Let's be unpredictable.
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