This is the same situation with me. There is one that has always been there, is named, and no one (including me) speaks of. What I do know is that she has been blamed for many of the bad things that have happened in our iife. There have also been others who have "come forward," but I do my best to ignore them. They were rather loud last week, though. There has been a "mother" that takes care of them, but I don't pay any attention to them. Sometimes, though, there are these deep feelings that rise to the top and present in my every-day life that I usually will attribute to them.