I'm having a rediculous problem with my husband and communication. He refuses to listen to me, turns things around and hears what he wants to hear then fights with me accordingly. Anytime he mentions how I "mess up" I acknowledge it but I also try explain how he "messes up". He won't have any of that. How do I get through to a brick wall? It's really upsetting because I want to make it work. We just found out I am pregnant. But he gets mad even at things he doesn't understand then just blames me and wants to end the relationship. His favorite response is "I don't want to talk about it" Please help what can I do???