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Old Feb 08, 2010, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
I live in Maryland in a tiny townhouse. I'm 59 and my husband is 66 and it's taken me two days to shovel 3/4th of my sidewalk to the street, but the street hasn't been plowed (was partially plowed once but not my cul de sac). The county commissioner made a canned phone call to tell us they're doing all they can, don't bug us :-) and you shouldn't go out tomorrow.

Did I tell you I live in a tiny townhouse and only bought food for an extra 2-3 days, not a week? We're expecting another half foot of snow Tuesday into Wednesday.

I have a four wheel drive vehicle but it's across the street in a parking pad (same street that hasn't been plowed). I waded over to it this afternoon to see if I could do anything (what do you do with three feet of snow on top of an already high windshield and roof? Where do you put it even if you are strong enough to lift it?). I almost got it stuck (and me asphyxiated with the snow as high as the exhaust pipe) and finally gave up.

I was beginning to get seriously stressed but the neighbor on my right was coming home (has been stranded elsewhere) and got stuck in the road and I saw his son out there trying to unstick him so went out and the neighbor on the left opened his second story window and we started talking and he can get out/has been out and said he'll drive me up to the grocery store tomorrow morning!

Woo Hoo!! But I'm still worried about logistics, getting my car out, cabin fever, etc. I'm glad I'm retired but it is no fun being older/weaker. Next year I'm going to have to see if I can figure out how to store more non perishables come November.
Disasters like this can bring out the best, and unfortunately the worst in people (luckily it's usually the best). I'm so glad you have good neighbors.

We don't get much snow where I live, but when we do it is truly a pseudoarmageddinsh event. Because it happens so infrequently, we don't have the infrastructure to deal with it, and can't justify the expenditure. Basically, like you, we are stuck.

However, try to remember that this too shall pass. It's a temporary situation, it will end, and life will return to normal. It's a bump, albeit a big one, but just a jostle.

Preparing a disaster kit is a great idea, of course I'm a PTSDer and I just sit around and mull over worst case scenario all the time. Hypervigilant much? I just hate to feel out of control and there is nothing like the weather to reinforce that control is just an illusion (IMO).

It'll all come round and you will be free again. Until that time, steady as she goes. Steady as she goes.