Hi, I know right now it can be hard to imagine a better time but it can get better. We had to consider residential treatment in the beginning too. My son broke everything he could get his hands on and got physical also. We had to put him in the hospital several times for his safety. He was five then but now he is twelve and doin okay. Being that your child is already a bigger and older and probably a stronger kid you have to take that into affect. Can you keep them safe and you safe while getting treatment. I suggest finding a good doctor who can help. We went to several docs before finding a really good one. I cant stress enough safety for both you and your child. I wish yall the best.