Yoda....
I so wish I were close by so that I could help you in any way I possibly could.

I'd do your plumbing, (have done my own and sister's), yardwork, declutter....any errands you'd need....dang...I wish I could help out....sigh.

If you need your sleep, though, wouldn't it be better to get your rest so that you can think more clearly? And after you wakies, then get the feed for your horse after you've dropped son off?

I'm sorry things are difficult for you.

Shangrala