petunia,

i'm sorry that you don't feel you're getting what you're giving.

i've felt that way. it's hard. sometimes many members aren't doing well at the same time, and when "big repliers" get down and ill, other posters can feel neglected. i've been there.

i can state that i'm sure it's not you. you're such a wonderful addition here. i'm sure it's the "place" that usual repliers might have been/be in.

be safe,

kd