i don't have DID at all, but i wanted to say how cool it is that you are all so open and honest. i once had someone with DID in my DBT class... she had a little. she sometimes came to group dressed like a young girl and she loved candy, though when she was in her "host" stage (eek, i don't know if i am saying this right!) she HATED anything sugary. even a birthday cake i once baked her.
anyways, i hope you figure out everything you want to