
Feb 08, 2010, 08:49 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
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Originally Posted by Fox
Thanks so much hunny. I know from a saved chat from my 3/4 year old that he gets help typing from an 8 year old so maybe if I have littler ones they could get help too? I was just thinking today how hard all this is without a T. I wonder where I'd be if it weren't for PC. I know it wouldn't have been me who'd have started putting pieces together! I read in a DID book that it seems to be not until a person's career starts falling apart do they seek help etc. So maybe I would've gone through my entire life wondering what's wrong. I always knew something was wrong, well at least for the past 4 or 5 years but couldn't explain what was feeling "off" till I met others with DID and their early experiences were much like what I'm feeling now.
This is true, but us small ones share common knowledge with the biggers. But not all that when we get a bigger to sit with us and teach us what we don't know. It had knowing something is different about you self but not for sure what it is. But it is easer to process thing when you know other that are doing the same.
I've looked a few times in the garden but every time I go in there I get a tummy ache and just start feeling smaller. So I back out of it. I don't like the feeling before I switch when it's like that. When I switch to someone big I don't notice anything different. It's not until I'm me again do I get a headache. Is that normal?
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We try to be comfortable when we switch. so don't force yourself to do it. let it happen on it own time. Just by providing stuff for the youngers to do when they be out is a big hello we like you and you be safe. We get headaches to. to us it is from the switching of mind frams. We only get them now when we have to many alters near the surface or a newbie comming out.
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