Just who does this guy think he is? What he is doing is sending you mixed signals. We call it crazy making behavior. He is a whimp and a coward making you feel that way. You deserve better. You deserve the best and from your posts, you know he is not. Also note that some of the affordable housing lists are pretty long. So the sooner you get your app put in, the better. Another tip, if you are not on a lease, you can list yourself as homeless and move up on the list quite quickly. And make that bozo treat you right.