Solarwind, I'm sorry that was such an awful experience. I wonder how a T like that can even stay in business. Please don't go back to this T again. The problem is with the T, not you. I did not like the sound of this T "commanding" you.
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blamed me for pulling "this stuff" and probably thats why i failed at T before.
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How does this new T even know that you "failed" at therapy before? That seems very negative and judgmental. I think that you probably didn't fail at therapy before, but you just didn't have a T with enough skill. I would worry about where this new T got this "you failed" idea. Did your former T send her your file?
Solarwind, I hope you will keep looking for a therapist. There are good ones out there. I wonder if there are two or three brief screening questions you could ask them over the phone first, to eliminate the awful ones like this most recent T.
