Hey Wendy, thanks for replying...
I know you are right and I understand all you've said myself... I just wish I knew ways to convince her to see a psychologist without getting her angry... She has told me she wants to help herself... and last night we talked and i said i will do anything i can to help her and she said thanks and she kinda accepted it so at least that's good...
I have to find out ways to convince her to see a psychologist...
Please have you had any such experiences with people who would refuse to see councling and maybe you know a way to convince her?
Her psychiatrist is doing nothing she sees her once a month and writes her a perscription and that's it...

Sometimes when she feels bad she calls an emergency hot line for mental problems but they can't help really - they are just young guys and girls volunteering...

I wish I knew how to give her hope and convnice her to go to a psychologist...

Alex