Like farmergirl said, be picky about this. You sure this t has ANY training in trauma???? She sure doesn't sound like she does.

When I was t-searching I mentioned to one of them (during one of the initial visits) about this being a relationship and he was like, 'this is not a relationship'. I shoulda left but stuck it out a few months. Wasted time and wasted efforts and wasted hopes. A t who doesn't think the relationship is a crucial part of the treatment is not a t I would ever work with again.