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Feb 09, 2010, 06:14 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Originally Posted by Burbitine
She did things that did drive me to the edge. And i wasnt like a beat on her. It was a fair fight
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It doesn't matter what anyone else does or doesn't do. Violence is wrong and unhealthy, whether that is physical, emotional, verbal, or sexual violence.
You say she pushed you to the edge. Are you really so out of control that you can't take accountability for you own actions and behavior? Are you so out of control of yourself that you have no power over yourself to behave in a safe and healthy manner. Or, do you just choose to give up the control you have because it's easier to let yourself fly off the handle and blame someone else for your actions than it is for you to take responsibility.
According to what your original post stated, before it was edited, it didn't sound like a very "fair fight" at all. And I really don't believe there is anything fair about fighting. Someone always gets hurt. What's fair about that?
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