hugs from me!!

it is really difficult to find a right T. it's kinda like chemotherapy.... sometimes it is really bad and it makes you really sick... you can literally feel like ***** after meeting some of these unhealthy therapists... and then, you get the right combination.

your T should be able to call you out on your ****. he/she shouldn't be too nice to you, especially if they are promoting an unhealthy behavior. constructive criticism should be very important in your relationship. you should be able to be super honest with them, and they back to you.

it takes time to find the right person. you gotta think... it shouldn't be too easy to find someone to trust on all levels. it's like picking someone to marry!! but anyways, don't worry about it. you will find someone perfect for you.