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Originally Posted by mylifenow
Hi Feeling Sad, I'm sorry. I'm so new to this board that I don't know people. Are you someone that suffers from BPD or are you in the same boat ~ loving one? I can tell you that simply finding this site and learning about the problem has helped dramatically. I'm still very sad about the change that came over someone who I care about, but I am coming to grips with possibly having to simply leave it alone. I'm so glad that (at the time) I didn't say or do anything mean or judging. I was so numb that I just told him not to be sad and that I loved him. In the moment, I felt that he was being cruel and uncaring ~ I'm realizing that he is the man that I knew before and his behavior is illness. May be illness that doesn't allow us to be together, but I'm so glad that I didn't compound his pain. Somehow, right now, that is giving me comfort. Thank you for your kind words and support.
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I joined this site last May and it was the best thing i ever did, everyone on here is WONDERFUL AND VERY LOVING!! The best people! Im like you, Im someone who loves someone( I think Im in love with my Friend who suffers from this) He never told me he does have it, but i believe it by things Ive noticed and he pushed me away too, So So sad
. Coming here has been great, very informative, learning alot, I think similiar the illness is why we couldnt be together, ,me and him, So def can relate, Im still a mess though, because we have been friends/more for 10 yrs and hes like part of my family so him being away now is very very hard,How do you cope? Im so sad.