Monty,

We'd guess that he probably isn't understanding how hard things are when the physical symptoms are what you're dealing with.

It doesn't sound easy to be feeling frustrated, confused, irritated and generally in a peeved mood all around.

We doubt T would mention hospital unless he had valid reason for your safety and well-being.

Where is H in all this? Can he help with communication with T? H has different perspective in living with you so he might be able to convey more information to T. Just an idea.

We're thinking of you Monty. We hope you do not have to go to hospital. We hope you take care and get through as best you all are able.