Rainy_daze,

Can I ask you a question? I am curious about how this manifests itself. You mentioned destroying trust......and please forgive me for asking a personal question. Did you make promises, plans, etc., and not keep them? It sounds almost silly when I write it down, but is this something consistent with BPD or does it vary? Things like planning a vacation and either not remembering or not following through? Thanks for considering the question.