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you can understand her point of view, father leaving situation. just remember what you were like at that time and what you wish people had done for you. if things aren't going to get better between daughter and father, then you have to let go. just always let her know that you are there to stay! let her know that you won't leave and that you love her and care about her.
people NEED to hear those comments often. in tough situations, it reminds us that we are not struggling alone, that someone is beside us the whole way. plan some 'fun' days with her, whatever you guys like to do - make a day of it. make her laugh and smile as much as possible.
i'm actually on the other side of the table from you - i've been on the 'outside' of my family most of my life. there were a lot of times that i wish i had someone like you with me. your sister may not know it, but you being with her right now is a blessing in so many ways...
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