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Originally Posted by deliquesce
the blanket/air bed/sleeping bag idea is a good one, but i just don't know how to do it without offending my parents, yknow?
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How about......you are soooooooooooooooooooooo excited about your new place....you want to stay over there asap!
This is normal for someone about to move out on their own for the first time!
Not only is it stressful and overwhelming, but it is exciting! Would your parent understand this part of it?
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Originally Posted by deliquesce
everything really does just feel like too much at once. moving is stressful, uni is stressful, i'm upset about getting the bigger room and don't want to live there anymore, and emotionally - what all of this moving out stuff means - that's all whirling in there too.
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Deli.....about the bigger room, I completely understand how you are feeling. Coin flip or not, I would totally feel guilty too. I don't know why, it's kind of hard to explain.
Maybe you would feel better if you offered to switch rooms? You could be honest about how you're feeling. And then, if she still wants to keep things the way they are with you in the bigger room, at least you know you made every effort and it would help ease the guilt.
I really don't think you should pay more rent even if you have the bigger room. You both agreed to split the rent to begin with, knowing that one room was bigger, right? So IMO you should keep it even.
Either way, big room or not - it is still YOUR OWN FIRST APARTMENT!!!
How great is that?
