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Old Feb 10, 2010, 06:11 AM
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I'd just like to introduce myself, and share my anger with labels. I'm a 22 year old woman and the closest thing I have found to describe my sexuality is a 4 on the Kinsley Scale. I'm not straight although I am married to a man and only want to be with him, I would never cheat on him, not even with a woman. I'm not considered gay, since I do love my husband and feel attracted to him. However, I'm not bi, because I very much prefer woman. I am only attracted to a select few of men. And I can not feel sexually attracted to a man, unless I am truly and deeply in love with him. I'm not confused at all about my sexuality. It's other people that are. And it angers me when other people try to label me with terms are totally inaccurate. Some people may call me bi, because I am with a man, but I am attracted to women. Some may call me straight, or no longer gay, because I am married to a man. I was born like this. I will always be attracted to women, whether I'm with a man or not, it doesn't matter. What you do relationship wise with your partner, does not change who you are as a person. People do not know my feelings or thoughts, they have no right to label me. I just love my husband for his mind, heart, and soul first, not his anatomy.
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