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Originally Posted by treehouse
T has told me recently that he really doesn't want me to suffer and it makes him want to jump in to do things to make the suffering stop....but he said that that isn't what he is there for, and he has to hold himself back and let me find my path. It seems with this Thursday thing that he's forgetting that.
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Awe - I think that's nice of him to say. He really does care about you.
Maybe it doesn't have to be all or nothing (i.e. all you or all him directing)? Maybe he can make a suggestion and you can decide if it's right for you, thus keeping you in the driver's seat? My T often makes suggestions (she's smart and sometimes they're helpful) but she doesn't get offended if I don't take them as I have to choose the best path for me.