Hi,

I think that was very well put. I feel that for my self, I am bisexual, yet I lean more towards males than females. Though I have been in love and a monogamous relationship with both a male and a female, (not at the same time).

I praise you on your marriage and your faithfulness to your husband. It is great to hear as far as I am concerned as you are in love and love conquers all.

I have a big problem when it comes to bisexual's who get married, then go behind there spouses back and cheat on them with the same or opposite sex. cheating is cheating. I feel like if a man or woman is bi and can not commit to a monogamous relationship ie: marriage, then they have no business getting married if they can not control their acting out on there attractions to the same sex.

That is just how I feel about it and I call my self gay and bi but really I am not in a relationship with either sex, not in love and not active so I am not either. I too feel because of the 'traditional' labels, that too many people stereotype that as being a 'set in stone' way of living.

Peace and Hope to you --kk101