I am making a list of things I want in a T. I know it is very personal, but I want to make sure that I am not forgetting some things. Like for example, I noticed that some people email their T outside session... I never even thought of that!

SO, I was wondering what you think is important to have in your T?

So far, I was thinking: patient, gentle, honest, funny, not quiet, female, lets me call within reason, does relationship-based therapy, understands foster care or is willing to understand, understands trauma, age like 40-50 and likes spaghettiOs...