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Feb 11, 2010, 12:01 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
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SW628 ~ I do not see my T outside of T...but I don't think I'd mind.
I think that if you and T both have the healthy therapeutic boundaries in site, and that you are using the restaurant environment as part of your treatment that this is okay. Even if you enjoy it a bit and get a bit of a b-day celebration out of it.
If you were stating that you and T were going out to hang out or that you thought that these meals out together had a deeper meaning other than the fact that your T cares about your health and well being and wants to assist you to heal....then I would be more concerned.
It sounds like you know where the boundaries lie, and that T does too, so if it works for you than go for it.
Traditional therapy is great, but I also think there are times when it is good to go outside the box therapeutically as long as both client and T can maintain the boundaries. 
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