Considering men, I really do only find my husband attractive and "sexually appealing to my physical libido". I could not even have impure thoughts about another man. I just think that some men who look similar to my husband are attractive.

Considering women, I was in several relationships with women before I got married. But no, I do not act on those feelings now. It doesn't mean I'm any less gay or bi, or whatever anyone would like to call it. Is a sexually inactive heterosexual (just needed an example), any less straight? No, that's why it angers me when people say I'm straight, or no longer gay, or I just went through a phase, or on the other hand, I am lying to myself and will eventually divorced my husband to be with a women. I may technically be in the bisexual "realm", but I do not fit the definition of bisexual and therefore, I can't use that label. Although, I love a man, I am much more attracted to women.