It was not your fault. Please don't ever think that it was. Feeling safe is an important thing in life. If you do not have an alarm in your residence if you installed one it might help you feel more safe. Please don't live in fear. Maybe talking to another therapist might help. alot of therapist ask questions about peoples childhood becasue in all of our classes we learn all these theorys about developmental stages and how things that happen to us early in life impact things that happen to us later in life. Please just remember that it is not your fault.

-Jason