This happened to me many years ago, homealone. I'm so sorry you have to ask this question

I am seeing a T right now that I trust to not hurt me in that way again. I told him right when we started working together what had happened in the past (it was with a minister who I was seeing for counselling) and he has been EXTREMELY respectful of my boundaries. I think I can honestly say that I've worked through what happened with the minister now, and put it behind me. So it is possible.

Safe hugs to you