(((((((((deli)))))))))) i just want to give you some hugs. i like what skeksi said about you not needing to be the one to preserve the peace in your family. we're all responsible for ourselves but not other's emotions or actions. i think your mom will likely come around in time too. how they act is their choice and not on you. if your family wants to act distant then that is NOT because you have done anything wrong but because they are just having a hard time adjusting to this change. i've been praying for you girl.