this is just a random thought and may not be right, but maybe T wants you to sit with the feelings and feel them rather than act them out.

also, my friend's old boyfriend used to use sex as a way to release his stress. he wanted sex from her more than once a day and she ended up feeling like she was being a bit used. it wasn't about having sex to connect but just to relieve his stress. your T may be concerned about something like that developing if this became a pattern.