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Originally Posted by Belle1979
Thanks everyone!
I had a bad moment today... but the moment sort of passed.. I still need to write a liitle though.
He still hasn't added me as FB friend... that made me angry but after the 'hot thought' had passed I thought well, why do I care. I do care that's what sucks!
My T said something to me last session and I want to share it. we were talking about Mark and about my other friend who violated my privacy by accessing my face book emails...
My T said "what would it take for you to cut a friendship off".. I didn't have an answer... I try to be friends with everyone who is in my life...
My T said "He has cheated on you, hurt you, betrayed you and still you want his friendship"
It's making me think twice about being so giving and forgiving to Mark. Why would I want his friendship? why would I allow myself to care about being friends with him?
I'm stronger that I have been before but he still has the ability to control my emotions occassionally...
My next goal is that no one can control my emotions but me!
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I think your T is right....why do you want to be with somebody who hurt you like this?....I think this is more as an attachment than anything else....
Then...What is the meaning of friendship?
Honesty, I think you should be the first one who deletes him from facebook and gmail and cellphone and anywhere else!
I did that....First I kept Aaron on my FB and gmail chat, then I found out I'm getting so obsess about him and checking him what he's doing....then one day, I deleted him from everywhere even my cellphone....then I felt free....
Trust me, once you start dating a good guy who treats you well, you won't even think about this guy anymore! I'm waiting for the day that you post a thread with your smile saying that you have met a wonderful guy
take care and write for you, we are here to help
Marjan