trying to be me;
Thank you so much for your reply. Your concern means a lot.
Please look at the additional info I made in a reply on the psychotherapy board, that's where I'm answering this.

If I ever were to return to any form of individual therapy, I would definitely take my wife and I refuse to ever be in the presence of one of these people alone ever again. Good advice, but at this point I will only attend a therapy group, which sadly does not exist for men.

Your concern is more than plenty to offer.
May God bless; Tom S.