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Feb 11, 2010, 08:18 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2003
Location: Coram Deo
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Please don't judge all therapists based upon one experience!
With regards to the guy, I wonder where the love is.
No one deserves to be treated like he did you, and from just what you said, he does appear to be abusive. The pattern of being controlling and abusive, and then loving and contrite only to become abusive and controlling again will not change. It may even become worse after deployment.
Try and find a normal life for yourself during this time of his being away. It could be you can realize what a really good relationship is like.
People tend to accept only the amount of love they think they deserve ... but even without knowing you, I suggest you deserve better.
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