oh deli, I'm so sorry. That's awful. I know how much you wanted to talk to him. I can understand why you'd want to just quit seeing him, when it's costing you time and money and hurting you in the process.
You don't deserve that at ALL, deli. I hope you feel like this is something you can address with him, so at least he knows the repercussions of his actions. Can you email him?