Oh, deli. P-doc canceling on you is NOT what you need right now. I'm so sorry he did that. I hope it's okay to say I don't believe you when you say you're over it. I think you need to acknowledge the hurt he has caused you, and discuss it with him.

Can't you call him or email, and tell him how much you needed him, and he wasn't there for you?

I don't know what else to tell you, but I admire you very much, and I hope the move will get less stressful for you once you actually do it.