Oh trust me after almost 30 years with this guy I have taken many many vacations before... some got results some did not.

And while I do not mind doing my part since I am at home more than he is - it wouldn't hurt to get a little help around the house from time to time and not be expected to cook dinner every single night of the week - man I thought I had already put my twenty years in... maybe thats the problem here: I am able to step back and rest (stop if needed) and he is not. hmmmm

Now what? - try to ignore when needed - Eeeek not really.