those rascally t's..always doing something nice to mess you up!

my t has done that twice..

the first time she apologized for doing so and the next time i saw her (and was in a better place mentally) i told her never do that-apologize again)..it was great she called..it meant alot to us to know she cared enough to call. it was the same day after a really intense and difficult session.

the second time she just called out of the blue...later in the week...we were teetering on THE EDGE...and she was worried...and she called to see how things were going and to say she cared.

its just nice when they do that...boundaries be damned sometimes..it can make such a difference...and i think that for me anyway it shows me she does care (even tho i know she does deeply) when i am in that deep dark place.

we have told her she can always call here if she is concerned or has something to say that she thinks of and feels it can't wait...we like the 2 way conversation...and she doesn't abuse it..which we are grateful for (!)