My boyfriend gets his daughters this weekend. they are young 3 & 7.. I am worried because everytime they are here i get really stressed. I dont know why or when I became the person who cannot tolerate children. I have always loved kids and been the person to take all my neices and nephews. Now Im horrible..I dont know if its because my son is grown and moved out or perhaps because my daughter passed away..What is my issues. I love these little girls. They are so cute but I find that I lock myself into the bedroom often to get away. Sometimes I get so stressed that I have to leave the house. My boyfriend and his girls do not deserve this. What can I do to make it better..