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Old Feb 12, 2010, 01:00 PM
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Zoo! I am so glad she said all the things you needed to hear. I like your T I had a feeling she would explain her behavior and hear you. What is great is that you DID pick up on something with her and that she told you she isnt a great compartmentalizer. You can trust yourself, you know? There was something there, but it wasnt YOU. That has been a huge lesson for me to learn in this life.

And you do deserve this kind of caring, explanations, and respect. She respected who you are and didnt dismiss you. I know when I get that from a T, I am always surprised I have been taken seriously, taken at my word and responded to according to what I said. Its so simple, but it blows me away. I am so used to being dismissed and having to struggle to be heard or understood that when I dont have to struggle to be taken seriously, it almost makes me want to cry.

Oh, and....yeah...tues would be an ETERNITY to me, too! If Im upset about something? YIPES! You did the exact, right thing, Zoo. Now you can breeeeeathe......
Thanks for this!
zooropa