Sounds like you're in a very difficult situation. And yes it does sound to me like your husband has a drinking problem. But only he can admit it, and he'll only do something about it when he truely wants to, you can't force him to change.

I strongly encourage you to find an Alanon meeting in your area and attend. Alanon is for family and friends of people who are alcoholic or have drinking problems. It's a great support network and can help you to build a stable life for you and your children despite your husband's drinking.

Keep posting here for support to.

Stay strong.

--splitimage