(Bluemoon))
I'm a little spooked by your story with your old T. I just turned 24 and have been seeing T for a year and a half now. My T is 38yrs old. I won't get into certain things as to not cause a commotion with ( boundary talk) but my T has done So much for me because i so needed it. T has taken me under her wing and it feels so safe. i feel loved for the first time in my life. I never new that someone could love and care about me that much. I love the feeling of having T and i appreciate all that she has done for me. If this makes me naive then so be it. I'm willing to take the risk.

I think you should contact your T. You turned out to be a wonderful person that has accomplished great things in her life....your T is part of that. I'm sure she would love to hear from you and see how far you've come.