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Old Feb 12, 2010, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Shangrala View Post

If you discovered that your healthy, (emotionally and physically), early teen son/daughter believes they are either bi or homo sexual, how would you feel about it? And how would you deal with it?

Shangrala
Well first my son is not completely healthy in that he is bipolar, ADHD and his father was violent towards me but... when my son was midteens he told me he was bicurious. I talked to him about sex the same way I would have if he had said he was straight - always use condoms, don't feel pressured into doing something you don't want to do, et cetera. His biological father was not so nice though. He told my son he would rather he be a murderer than gay and he wished my son would be raped in jail so he could "learn" better than being gay. He totally sucks as a father.

My son is now twenty y/o and has had his first intimate relationship (girl) and is now not in a relationship. I hope someday he has children but whatever he does I hope he is happy.
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