Writingwithink,sw,chaotic and farmergirl- It occurred to me, after reading your stories that we all have stories to tell with Ts that cared and bent the boundaries to be there and do what was needed.
Writing- You were very fortunate to have your T there as an angel guiding you. It does seem like divine providence sometimes, doesnt it? I am glad there were no very serious consequences for you during that time. Hugs to you.
Farmer- It does seem like your T was also an angel there to protect and look out for your safety. It does seem that there are times when the boundaries of the profession need to be changed in order to deal with a situation. In such a crisis, I believe the boundaries were just as they should have been. He protected his client who he cared deeply for. Im glad you were safe and T knew just what to do.
Chaotic- LOL! I know that "jerk" behvior. Oh, sigh.....it isnt pleasant to look back on, is it? But we are the loveliest of people now, arent we?
SW- I have read your posts about you and your T and they do remind me of the T I saw when I was younger. For me, its all OK and your T sounds like she knows what she wants to do for you and what you need. You are very, very fortunate to have found her. She sounds like a blessing in your life
I think I will do some googling and see if I can find her. I guess I havent done it b/c I never thought Id do anything with the information. I also feel shame about how I left. I dont remember why I did what I did (if I was angry and left? Or what I could have been thinking), but I guess it doesnt really matter now.
I'll keep you posted if I find her. Im looking forward to this search

Thanks for all of your encouragement.