Well don't worry about it then. I don't have people coming in and asking me if I am gay, or if I thought a woman was attractive or what scale I am on. I never took a test. I knew from an early age like 7 that I was gay, yes that is young to know but in retrospect that is about the time I found out or acted on those feelings. I didn't come out until I was 17, but I wish I hadn't because I would prefer the ambiguity, than people thinking I am somehow perverted in this conservative town. I don't deal with it that often and with my therpist, I am still trying to figure him out as he is trying to figure me out. I have a boyfriend/roommate of six years and I have heard a lot of mean things about our relationship. Not enough boundaries, living in the past, in childhood, not reaching maturity and so on. I don't care anymore, he loves me and he is closer to me than any of the other people so they can get out of my life, if I ignore them long enough.