Hi Blue Moon,
I've been thinking about this since you posted it.....thinking, thinking, and not sure how to respond. What you said here stuck with me...
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Originally Posted by BlueMoon6
My question is- according to what I read here, she isnt supposed to do any of that, but she did and it helped me tremendously at the time.
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It kind of seems like you are wondering how ethical she was in doing all she did for you, just because it didn't end up hurting you, was she overstepping boundaries.
I think if all of that were happening now, and you were posting about it here, you would definitely get some responses telling you to watch out, that it could end up badly.
You also said she was from Romania, and I also wondered if there were any cultural differences that came into play.
But, I truly believe that if we are open to them, the right people are put into our paths to help us get through life. It sounds like she was such a person for you.
I'm glad you had her help, and that it DIDN'T turn out badly.
I also wondered, from your original post, if sub-conciously you were uncomfortable with the blurred boundaries, and if that could have been an unknowing reason you left her care so abruptly?
I don't know.....just a bunch of speculations and wondering that ocurred to me from post. Feel free to completely ignore me.
