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Old Feb 13, 2010, 11:54 AM
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I learned as a weeee little one that family is NOT where to find support. when hurting they will make sure you hurt even worse......

I never lean on any of them and just keep things on the surface and congenial. They have no idea what goes on with me and I prefer it that way so I don't have to endure further pain and upset. I am guarded and rightly so. I've distanced myself from them all-- especially the mother...... it's self-preservation for me.

I think for those that have even one person in their family that supports them when times are bad-- you are VERY lucky....... even though I'm not a religious sort, I'd refer to you as "blessed"

Sorry it wasn't good for you growing up goodgirl and that your mother is still rough on you.

best to you,

fins
Thanks for this!
Catherine2