I think it is unfortunate that when people go above and beyond what they need to do in order to help someone out of caring and generosity, like your T did, it is necessary to question motives and protect ourselves.
Don't you?
But if you think about it, that's the angle evil T's can use to take advantage. That makes it all very confusing. We always want to believe the best of someone, especially someone who is acting like they care for us. It's just hard to know when our belief is leading us down a dangerous path.

I'm sorry, Blue, maybe I am hijacking your thread. This topic triggered something for me and I'm not expressing myself very well.
ok, I'll be quiet now.